Do You Like to Play with Your Kids?

April 1, 2013 in All Posts, Parenting, Play

I just read a really interesting article in Redbook Magazine - yes, I realize how old that makes me sound, but I find it even more aging to pretend I’m not an almost 40-year old mom - about a mom who confesses that she hates playing with her kids and has mommy guilt about not being enthusiastic about playing Candyland (or tea party or trains) for the bazillionth time with her daughters.

Take a swig of your latte if you’re not at all shocked by this “Mom Confession” and actually have felt at some point or another that you’d rather get ten bikini waxes in a row than take another trip to the park.

Double swig (except it’s regular coffee with organic light vanilla soy).

Despite being a mom who blogs about ways to play with your kids, as I read through that article, I was nodding in agreement as the author described making grocery lists in her head while waiting for a game to end or typing e-mails secretly under the table until she was busted by the kids. I TOTALLY get that.  I felt it a lot when I stayed home with the kids and I still feel it back at work part-time, even though my time with them is so much more precious because it’s limited by my work hours.  But guess what: it’s normal!  And definitely not a reason to have mommy guilt over, which the author says she suffers from.

You don’t HAVE to play with your kids.

You don’t HAVE to schedule playdates and be forced to play with other kids’ moms.

You don’t HAVE to enjoy getting down on the ground to play with dolls and dinosaurs with your little ones.

I think what the author is missing and what anyone, if you’re suffering from mommy guilt for not absolutely loving playtime, needs to know is that kids don’t need you to play.  They’re perfectly fine and happy without you.  But – taking a few minutes every day (or every week if that’s all you can muster – which is FINE) to slow down and be present with your children will give your family a positive boost from connecting in a way that might not be built into your daily routine and a way that your kids might really dig just because they’re kids and I’m guessing, probably love to play – even if you don’t.

If you’re looking for more ways to connect through creative play, I want to tell you about an exciting new workshop from two of my friends, Gina, at Connecting Family and Seoul, and Kat of Creative Playhouse:  the

Connecting Family through Creative Play Workshop!

Starting April 8th, Gina and Kat will send you daily inspiration for ways to play and connect with your little one.  You’ll also gain access to a private Facebook group and direct access to play experts, Gina & Kat, who are friendly, accessible, and dedicated to helping YOU connect with your children and make lasting memories with your family.

Connecting Family Through Play

This affordable workshop is for you if:

  • You need new ways to get the whole family playing together.
  • You are looking for a comfortable balance between the everyday tasks that fill up your to-do list and connecting with your child in meaningful ways.
  • You simply need fresh ideas for ways to play!

Gina and Kat are SO passionate about helping families connect through play, they are offering their workshop on a pay-what-you-can-basis.

Check it out! I’m going to and would love to see you there!

Need more ideas for easy ways to play and connect?  Here are a just a few of my favorite bloggers and their wonderful resources for play inspiration:

So…confess:  do you really like to play with your kids all the time or can you relate to the feeling of just trying to get through it sometimes?

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Chrissy – who has written posts on The Outlaw Mom® Blog – Tips for Raising Thinking Kids + Creative Living.


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